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Getting another dog or cat: Moving on after pet loss
There are many wonderful reasons to once again share your life with a companion
animal, but the decision of when to do so is a very personal one. It may be
tempting to rush out and fill the void left by your pet’s death by immediately
getting another pet. In most cases, it’s best to mourn the old pet first, and
wait until you’re emotionally ready to open your heart and your home to a new
animal.
Some retired seniors living alone, however, may find it hardest to adjust to
life without a pet. If taking care of an animal provided you with a sense of
purpose and self-worth as well as companionship, you may want to consider
getting another pet at an earlier stage. Of course, seniors also need to
consider their own health and life expectancy when deciding on a new pet.
Each animal is different, so trying to exactly duplicate your old pet will
likely result only in frustration and disappointment. A new pet should be
appreciated fully for its own sake, not as a direct replacement. That may mean
choosing another type of pet or a different breed. Whatever you decide, give
yourself time to grieve the loss of your old friend and follow your instincts.
You will know when it is right to bring a new animal companion into your life
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